I was out with a friend today in up-town. As we were waiting to cross the street, a young man comes up to us and says something like, “Hey, can you guys please, please, please! give me a dollar. I only have 50 cents and I need to catch the bus to get to work.” My friend introduces himself to this young man and asks him where his work is. He replied with an answer, explaining it was down on a specific road, but didn’t seem to know exactly where and said “… I don’t know…” at the end. Friend tries to clarify where on this road it was, giving landmarks, and the man said that yes it was right there. “Well, I’m heading right that way, why don’t I give you a ride there.”
The man replies, “No, I gotta catch the bus to get there…” “Why do you need to catch the bus if I’m able to give you ride there?” asked my friend. “No thanks man…”, and the man walks away.
It sure is sad to see people deceiving you right to your face asking for something. A personal ride is far greater than a dollar to catch the bus - you can save your 50 cents, and you don’t need to wait for the bus to come! Well, he didn’t need the bus, and he had no job to get to.
That is similar to me asking someone for something, and that someone offers something greater than I asked for, yet I make them into a useless, unhelpful person instead of the over-gracious person they were trying to be. Someone in their generosity towards what I was asking for offers something greater, and I totally snuff out the gracious man. Not only does it make deceitful folks more deceptive, but it also makes gracious people less willing to be gracious. It’s a double-negative.
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